When you are trying to a cancer patient you will be asked to do some really strange thing. Such as helping your brother remove his pants. Also being his constant golpfer without complaining. The key for someone in my condition if you are going to help, don't complain in front of the person.....maybe step outside and go to the car and scream. But there is nothing more stressful then asking for something and getting push back. Brother Jim has done the following for us since October:
- Stepped in to become our dog walker. October it allowed Deanna to stay with me in the hospital. Later on it gave her a brake during some long days at Tiffany.
- Getting me everything.... Yes everything. Could you bring my blanket and a pillow from upstairs, a glass of water, lunch, clothes, etc. I ask and he has no problem.
- Taking me to many appointments.
- 2 days ago helping me walk to go to the bathroom.
- When I was out of pain meds driving to Loyola and picking up a prescription to get it filled. This is due to Illinois law, the doc can't call it in.
- He even started to do dishes.
- Going shopping for us so we have food in the house. Deanna has gone through retail hell at work and recently my walking is funny.
The support given to me is tremendous. Here is an analogy. Deanna is my security blanket. I couldn't do it without her. Brother Jim is the blanket to make sure my toes don't get cold.
The beautiful thing is I can ask plenty of people for help. It stinks to need it and I am very greatful the help is there.
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